“We Are Trained To Hide The Damage”

How ignorant of me to think that I could haphazardly live a life without love being defined in my world. Because the world depends on my portion of love to make it complete.

In the world of love, lies compassion, humility, sensuality, my uniqueness. There is power in my Divine Feminine. If this love is hindered from a male perspective, then it hinders his Divine Masculine. And this power joined with the right partnerships (“The Ships”) love, business friendships, and family dynamics create a new wellspring of life. They create an ability to heal, train, develop, and learn. They create synergies.

When we hide our damage and not address it head-on, this is where we go. And we have been trained to bury our imperfections. Our male counterparts have been schooled to bare an incredible amount of disappointments and show no emotion. And our Divine Feminine’s carry burdens that have stripped away their softer sides. We address each other with materialism vs. emotion. And we do all sorts of things to cover up what’s inside. They write a lot of songs about it.

If I didn’t take the time to address these issues within, to choose the love of self, well, it would be a repetitive vicious cycle. It disciplined me to compete with women while vying for the attention of men. In all actuality, when I learned to love me, I realized that what is meant for me will find me. It has no choice. My frequency is different.

Regardless of your belief in the story of Jesus or not (I promise I’m not trying to convert anyone. You can believe in doorknobs, and it’s okay with me). This example is still the same. He was found by the three wise men because he was shining bright. When you address your self, it chips away at those things that have hindered you from shining bright.

I share my journey as my truth and healing during my transformation. If, by chance, you can use it for yours, then, by all means, please do. And if not, that’s okay too. I created “Becoming-You, LLC. To give encouragement to those who are transforming (and there are a lot of us). And who are looking to take the trek knowing that they are not alone!

We may not be confronting the same issues, but we are dealing with something that is hindering us from being who we were destined to be, which is authentic. Uniquely created for a purpose.

I had someone tell me years ago that I was weird, and I took it offensively. Today, I would say to them you are so correct! I’m proud of who I am, who I have become, and I embrace my weird. I wouldn’t change it for the world!